How to build resilience
August 26, 2020
Resilience is a word that’s tossed around like confetti.
It’s often used to describe individuals and communities who suffer great injustices and personal tragedies but survive to grow spiritually and mentally stronger from the experience.
Within themselves they find a reserve of fortitudinous strength that leaves others (us lesser mortals) in awe.
It’s a powerful word. Resilience. I love it. When I think of resilience, I see solid Doric columns soaring to the sky, sort of like The Parthenon. Built in 460BC, it still stands today. Dunno where I’m going with this but stay with me…
My point is this, resilience is a desirable and admirable trait that you’re not aware of until you have to use it.
In his book, Daily Writing Resilience – 365 Meditations & Inspirations For Writers, Bryan E. Robinson, PhD aligns resilience with perseverance and willpower. The message is never give up or, to quote Dory, from Finding Nemo, ‘just keep swimming.’
This DIY manual for writers and anyone who needs a motivating pep talk delivers on its promise. What you get is a page of practical wisdom for every day of the year. Each page begins with an uplifting quote from a famous author, then a reflection from Robinson, followed by his tidy summary of the topic under the heading ‘Today’s Takeaway’.
For example, August 24 is titled ‘Make rejection work for you’.
The quote is from hugely successful crime writer Janet Evanovich – it’s encouraging to learn that Evanovich, creator of feisty bounty hunter Stephanie Plum, received rejection letters for ten years!
Robinson expands the topic and finishes with ‘Today’s Takeaway’: ‘Use rejection to toughen you up by joining ranks with yourself instead of beating yourself up and joining in with those who reject your work.’
Robinson, an author and psychotherapist, has tapped into the zeitgeist of our troubled times. He weaves meditation, breath work, yoga, stress management , gratitude and more into the mix. One of the authors who praises the book writes, ‘… (it is) not only wise but also marvelously practical’.
Daily Writing Resilience is an inspirational read for every day, whether you get to write or not. Recommended.
Every rejection letter is one letter closer to the one that isn’t a rejection. If you don’t get rejection letters you will never get an acceptance. So instead of cringing when you receive a rejection, you should embrace it because they are part of the journey 🙂